

Learning to properly form and throw a punch will make sure that you don't make a valuable movie mistake if the situation calls for it, so you'll be able to throw a high-probability punch accurately and end the fight sooner rather than later. Fights don't work like in the movies, where both people throw a million hard right-hands right to the face until someone hits a KO. Your favorite song lyrics, a poem, or a prayer might be an appropriate little passage to memorize for these occasions. Practice reciting a mantra any time they speak, focusing hard on replacing the words you hear with something positive. Don't listen to the toxic spew coming from your enemy's mouth.Practice picturing your enemy doing something ridiculous, like singing opera or wrestling with an octopus, when they're confronting you.Even if you do react, make it cool and calm. Emotional reactions are like water for the plants of enemies. Just look at them like you would an irritating swarm of ants, or your cat's puke. Don't get upset, or try to argue back when your enemy launches into their irritating, bullying behavior. When your enemy confronts you, the best tactic is to turn into the ice man. Learning to disengage and freeze these enemies out is the best way of handling them and disarming their ability to torment you. Many enemies are hyper-competitive jerks who've allowed their love of winning to overcome other considerations, like human decency and kindness. These types of bullies might respond better to a kinder tactic. Lots of bullies are really just looking for companionship and friends, because they feel undervalued and unloved. Many bullies are really just big babies who have no self-confidence or belief in their own abilities. Good revenge might mean setting your enemy up for some public embarrassment or failure. If you've got a braggy, boastful enemy, being put in a position of embarrassment will be devastating for this enemy.

Just like in the ancient Greek stories, excessive pride can lead to the downfall of many enemies. Finding that weakness will be essential to planning your revenge and getting your enemy humiliated. Every enemy has a weakness, no matter how strong they seem when they're putting you on their heels. An enemy is someone who thinks you're taking their popularity, so they hate you and always win at everything.įind your enemy's weakness. From the classroom to the workplace, enemies are serious threats to your ability to get through the day. Frenemies are irritating, toxic, and a real downer. But when you're hanging out, she doesn't ever stop bragging. Well don't ever be friends with your enemy, not even frenemies. Frenemies are friends that you don't like.Everything tells you that you should be friends with your nemesis-you've got similar interests, goals, and hobbies-but you just don't get along. You'll find nemeses at work, at school, and in other situations where you're paired with like-minded similar people. Nemeses are like the opposite version of you.Depending on who your enemy is and the nature of your relationship, you need to learn more about how they work before you can learn to defeat them. Figure out what kind of enemy you're dealing with.
